Playtime can be a wonderful
opportuntiy for children to learn to focus their attention and build self
confidence and self esteem.
Research has told us that while
it may appear that all children are doing is playing for fun, it is actually a
much more important part of a child's developmental process. Playing is a very
natural way for children to learn because it uses all of their senses. Playtime
is also a cognitive learning exercise where children practice taking in
information and organizing it to solve problems and understand their
environment.
Although it is important to let
children play alone. There are many things that adults can do that will help
our children build confidence, self esteem, focus their attention and improve
their language and motor skills by interactively playing with them. These
skills do not always come naturally and parents need to be taught how to be a
good play partner.
WATCH AND LEARN
The first step to becoming a good
play partner is to observe our child's play patterns while concentrating on
what they like to do in specific ways. For example, what types of toy does your
child choose to play with the most? Does your child like to figure out how it
works or use the object to build something else? Often parents get in a hurry
and don't take the time to sit back to watch and learn.
FOCUS ON THEIR IDEAS
After observing, it is time for
parents to start playing with their child. One of the biggest mistakes parents
make when playing with their child is to dominate their play. For example, If a
child is building a tower from building blocks and you know the tower is to
narrow and is going to fall down, it is instinctive for parents to take over.
Parents will want to help reinforce the tower or show their child how to start
over with a wider base to create a strong better tower. Adults may think this
helps teach their child good building skills but it can also be damaging. When
we take over a child's play we can send a negative message to the child that
their way was the wrong way and their efforts were not good enough. Perhaps
your child was not trying to build a big strong tower but rather looking
forward to watching it crash! To be a good play partner you have to focus on
THEIR ideas, not your own! When joining our kids playtime ask questions like
"What would you like me to do?" and follow their lead.
USE "INFORMATION
TALK"
Information talk is a term that
speech pathologists and child development specialist use to describe the best
way to vocally interact with children. In simple terms, it means to
enthusiastically describe what a child is doing, using, seeing, what they are
hearing and how they may be thinking or feeling. When parents and care givers
describe playtime using information talk it helps kids notice their
surroundings. It can also help provide them with information they can process
and help them understand and use language skills as they listen to your speech
patterns and sentence structure.
While describing make sure you
don't overload your child with information. Keep it on their level.
Most importantly spend time with
your child, down on the floor sitting at their level and help them feel loved
and important part of your life.
Credit to : What do children learn through play?
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